Love is an endless millennial chase

[Starmix]

Love is blind. That much is clear, yet people tend to take it a step further. Romance in today’s age is thought to be the “ultimate end goal” in one’s life which deviates most from priorities. This speech aims to give perspective on how romance demands emotional independence and responsibility which go hand in hand in building a healthy relationship.

Firstly, young adults today tend to chase after their ideas of love as a means of finding their other ‘half’. In truth, you should already feel complete and not have to force your own expectations of romance onto someone unready to take hold of the responsibility. Yes, everyone deserves love, but only prepared and complete people should love. It is much more realistic to face one’s struggles and personal issues first before love is taken on as another equally important responsibility later on.

Second, incompleteness creates an unhealthy dynamic within any relationship, chasing after love from someone unready may compromise both your needs and theirs which will lead to resentment and emotional strain in the future that only worsens the damage and trauma both individuals currently face. Lastly, things that are forced to happen don’t work out most of the time. The endless chase for immature love is a losing battle. All in all, it is important to know that when the time is right, love will come to you, and when it does you should see to it that you’re prepared to reciprocate that level of commitment.

 

[Augusta]

Love is a beautiful thing, we don't have to force it. when the time is right, love will come to us and we will enjoy to the fullest

 

[Starmix]

Agree with you, that love will come to us in the right time with the right person. Itis never good to chase love there is no reciprocity and the desire will useless

 

[eLdavis]

Starmix:
Agree with you, that love will come to us in the right time with the right person. It is never good to chase love there is no reciprocity and the desire will useless






You have a point though, when the right person comes, everything becomes easier.

 

[Starmix]

Starmix:
Agree with you, that love will come to us in the right time with the right person. It is never good to chase love there is no reciprocity and the desire will useless






You have a point though, when the right person comes, everything becomes easier.

That's right but it's hard to find a real love this time. In this difficult time I no longer heard weddings here. It seems single people are afraid to settle down.

 

[eLdavis]

That's right but it's hard to find a real love this time. In this difficult time I no longer heard weddings here. It seems single people are afraid to settle down.

It's pretty much everywhere. It has become hard to find a good partner. When I see various things happening these days, it makes me worry.

 

[Augusta]

Agree with you, that love will come to us in the right time with the right person. Itis never good to chase love there is no reciprocity and the desire will useless

Yes, when you chase love it would fly. Just he patient and wait for the right person and with the right motive. They would come around

 

[Starmix]

Yes, when you chase love it would fly. Just he patient and wait for the right person and with the right motive. They would come around

How nice if meet the one destined by God to us it's not good to decide for our own for it will not be successful.